Being Super woman

I know that all of us go through it, being a woman is not easy. We have to take care of our children (if you have any), cook, clean, work, stay in shape, attractive, have a healthy sex drive and have the common sense. It is one of the most challenging things of my life. Here is a list of situations that we take the blame:

• if your husband does not call his mom or does not spend time with his family
• if your child does something foolish in public whether you are present or not the blame goes to you.
• if your husband goes to work not groomed
• if your home is a mess

Why is that? Why aren't men accountable? We as women have so much pressure put on us to be great at everything, but men do not have those issues. Typically, men think that going to work and bringing home a check is enough even though they my have a wife who does the same thing. It is unfortunate in the society that we live in there are still social pressures to live up to being a superb wife and (one day far way for me!) mom. I think that is the cause (going back to yesterday's entry) for women filling unfulfilled and unhappy in their relationships.

It is already hard enough to maintain who you are when you merge you live with another, but the pressure and change really occur when as women are nurturing side kicks in. We have a tendency to make sure others are taken care of before our needs. I do think that in the beginning of marriage that is the side of it in my opinion that really makes a women fill indifferent. The question is how do I maintain "self" with "married" self? Please take this topic and share with friends. xoxo